The Essence of Adventurous Life!

Assalamualaykum!

Started off with WordPress when I was fourteen as the subtitle of my profile suggests. Now, Alhamdullillah, I am hitting 17 and almost 3 years have passed and things have changed in a quite positive way. I have her as my best friend. I am peaceful and contented now. I am a bit mature clumsy now 😀 And in some other good ways as well. Life has turned a lot better, providing all the essential lemons and Also Nature blessed me with my soul mate to teach me how must I tackle those lemons.

I am Adventuring. Seeking more adventures.

Hmmm. Adventure. Let’s  talk about adventure.

Google says:

adventure

ədˈvɛntʃə/

noun

1. 1.

   an unusual and exciting or daring experience.

   “her recent adventures in Italy”

Let’s get to the first part. Unusual. Well said, Fred. You know when your soul finally gets its only matching jigsaw, how inspired it gets. All the hollowness and meaninglessness of your ‘self’ and your ‘life’ goes down the drain. Even when you feel low, you are inspired because you know “You have it, mayn! You have what you always craved for. The much-needed righteous attention.” You no more have to opt performing attention-seeking feats. You don’t have to update status on fb and tweeting on twitter that you are feeling low! You will just directly tell that to your partner and you both take it as ‘another challenge’ by Dear life and tackle it quite responsibly and even in that one of you will find positive aspect and motivate the other or maybe laugh it off. That’s ‘unusual’. Because you have learned that being in the limelight is not the ‘contentment’, it’s the peace that the Right one brings from within, the one that moves your soul and inspires you. Every feeling you get about them is thrilling and ‘unusual’ in all the possible ways. Every breathe you take during moments when you feel grateful about the trueness of your bond, it does something to your heart, you bliss out. You are filled with gratitude now. That’s ‘unsual’.

“Exciting”. Well! As I have already stated about the thrills and ‘excitements’ you get when you think about your most impregnable bond with your true friend which surely is a literal blessing in the world full of rants about fake friends, fake partners and blah blah! You know event most common of all the things get ‘excited’ when you plan to do it with your friend. You know maybe just ‘a walk’, something I, you and all the men in the street see even the other men in street doing. Something as simple as that. IT gets exciting, yes! Not a walk with distracted mind partly burdened with future plans partly with regrets from pasts but The walk with the very presence of your mind knowing that you are complete now and the person perambulating beside you has planned to walk all their life with you. You have achieved the major fundamental clue to your life. Now you two have to build each other. Trust me, even reminding this to self is so thrilling and ‘exciting’. This was some very simple thing turning exciting. So is the case with other simple things as well like sipping tea together at the same instant even when you two are not even physically together, ‘cooking’ the same thing at the same time be it at different places or make it more exciting by cooking the same thing together and so many such things like these are here in my mind popping up and thoughts of which are already making me excited when I am just writing about them so that adds up ‘writing’ as well. Think how ‘thrilling’ things will get if we come to already extraordinary things like ‘travelling’ which asks for money and time and also most importantly ‘permissions’ by your families and parents. 😀 That’s how true mate makes life ‘exciting’ as well.

Now comes the ‘daring’ part. Wow! Daring! yes!!!! You know you can now do things you never had guts to get done. You are ready to face everything for your partner. You want to stay steadfast. You are not worried how stormy the wind is going to be, you know you will stay unwavering because your very courage is your bond, you know this is the thing you always needed and now that it’s with you, you can do anything! You are not afraid anymore. Physical fears are not that hard to deal with as much as emotional fears. You know you no more are afraid of people judging you. You don’t care what random people have to say on your acts rather you pity them because you know that they do not have who you have, their search is still continuing, they still crave the attention.You are not fake because you have to impress people, you are You because you were meant to be you. You are “daring” enough to be YOU! Love has made you a ‘You’ or more correctly, The “YOU”. That’s how you get ‘daring’ as well by placing that once missing piece (or more correctly, ‘peace’) of the jigsaw that you are at its place.

That’s how it is. Obviously not ‘happy-happy’ all the time, there definitely are ups and downs as I stated above, life never stops giving you lemons, but thing is, you find yourself always contented and that is what matters.

So that is what adventure is, a blend of quite “unusual” set of emotions; sentiments and sensations, a much exhilarating and “exciting” experience and bold and “daring” will. You do not need ‘Chemical-X’ to make your life adventurous but You definitely need to wait for your soul mate to land in!!! Good luck ..ciao! 😉