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An attempt to approach mundane secret!

“Don’t think or judge, just listen.”

The aforementioned set of words, by Sarah Dessen, kindled me to write and express my philosophies about the human nature, something about our psyches, something regarding behaviours, thoughts, actions and reaction, appreciation and mockery, something on emotions, expressions and constraints.
It all starts with one’s environment, the situation in which he grows and the way he is nurtured. Everybody is born the same, this is my very personal belief. I have always felt that there are two options to everyone in every situation. The one who is oppressed can either become the most humane or the most brutish being, the one who has been much opulent either turns into a profligate or somebody so scrooge, totally tightwad. It all depends on how has he been treated during his journey.

The other day I went through some random words that went like ‘If you like something about somebody, appreciate it. Because that may take a while  for you but for somebody its impact could be eternal.’. We don’t realize how important or, better say, significant is our influence on the people who we are in contact with no matter in what manner. Whatever we say is going to affect them howsoever.

I usually think how must I shape or groom myself, so that when I get to raise some little humans whom I will be blessed as an official responsibility to influence on in the best possible manner. For that, I believe, I need to teach myself first and start practicing by implementing and treating others in the best possible manner so as to influence their lives in a better way, to make someones life better, to have a very positive impact on somebody in this otherwise negative society. And for that, in turn, I need to understand the psyche, the needs and requirements of one’s mind and that’s what I try to do and wish to excel in. Because I personally believe that this can not only make others lives better, it also brings self-satisfaction and contentment within self. And since ‘Charity begins at home’ and also the people who we get to interact the most with are our parents, siblings and our kids, our fellows etc, so now we know where we should start practicing this from.

Because no matter what we are going to influence their lives in some way however so why not try to understand people and leave a better impression? Why not make everybody feel good about himself? Why not try to make this world a better place? Why not spread love when you can. Let’s enjoy the bumpy ride of life together. I hope this attempt makes a difference. Be and let others be at peace. Fingers crossed!

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Life: a package of chimaeras?

Chilly winds. Night time. Best friends.

 How ecstatic, right?! 😀 

People who are materialistic ain’t getting the material. And people who want things as simple as this ain’t getting the taste of it. How contradictory is this world, nay? You want one thing, you get all other things but that thing. Whether the nature of human is to be blamed or maybe that’s how worldly life is destined to be. 

Here, You don’t want to be slave to society because you are a whole goddamn soul having your very own freaking existence. But Alas! You can’t either be a free-spirit because then people who want to live the same way as you wish but can’t coz they have same fear of same lot of people who too wish same but can’t because of exactly same friggin chain of reasons. It’s like you are caged, there is a chaos, this world’s like a maze. What John Green calls this thing in Looking for Alaska? A labrynth, yes! You are caught up in it, always desiring. Even if one desire gets fulfilled, you are chasing another one. Your cauldron of desire is never so full. You are always confused, always chasing something. This all ends when you get out of this labrynth, with the arrival of death, out of your life.


Only God knows what comes after life, or death, or both, maybe.